FY, She's still baking up and nicely too. Slowly but surely is the way to go. At least she's settling down and has been honest about how she feels right now at the attraction to you. She's still suffering from some depression and hopefully once that lifts she'll feel differently.
I hope that you and your wife will enjoy your time away at the resort. Relax, have fun and best of all, get to know one another again in a different environment.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
