Anxiously waiting for it to fall apart

[Lifes Twists]

Dejavu,

I don't think it matters what board on this forum you post to as long as you find one that you connect to and can grow from the interaction.

From my own personal perspective I believe that people who immerse themselves in work or hobbies or sports are doing so to avoid growing up and facing the responsibilities that come with it.

I think in your husbands case he sees it catching up with him as the kids mature. Its hard raising kids today. there are so many outside influences that can run havoc over their lives. Your husband sees this and the added responsibilities and he seems to be running even harder away from them.

You can see this and have chosen to work on your self and grow as a mother along side your children's growth. Your husband is choosing not too. Its a shame and some day he me realize this and it may be too late.

Keep standing strong and working on your self. You have found out you are a strong person and can survive. Good things come to those who are patient and keep moving forward.