I'm interested in your statement, he is what I call a vanisher. Can you expand on that? In your opinion, what makes someone a vanisher? Just trying to understand. I think I read a post that was all about trying to get answers- understanding the "why". I know I may never fully understand, b/c I don't think anyone truly understands why we sometimes do crazy things.
It is someone who just disappears and is never heard from again, this could be from the depression. They have no energy to talk to you and it is too painful for them, which has nothing to do with you.
