Well, once more doing the right thing has turned into another amazing episode of As The Nutbar Turns. She answered my message this afternoon, I was downtown photographing a baseball game. here's the text "Thank you for your text. My GF is fine. Please stop writing to her" My first thoughts where to write "Wow, what a man hiding behind his gf's cell phone number". let's face it, when you get the bf to text (if he really exists) you're making a veiled threat. My answer was "no problem" I'm actually relieved because I now know that nothing I did yesterday caused this she was set on being a you know what all on her own. So, from now on I avoid any contact whatsoever. It's unlikely that she will come very often cuz she lives a long way away from the church and our big SDA church is a short bus ride for her. So, obviously I'm the only one who wants to walk the walk. Fair enough.