Thanks Zues. I have suggested marriage counselling previously but my H doesn't believe in 'talking to strangers about his marriage'. I haven't mentioned marriage retreats before so I don't know if he views those differently
Me 33, H 34 T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch) M 4 DD 3 OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010
1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea) OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11) I moved out 3/12/11
