Just want to clarify that the only reason I suggested a lawyer at this point, is because OP said he is taking joint family funds to finance his new lifestyle. If that becomes a problem, it would be vital to know what she can and cannot do. Nothing escalates a situation as arguments about money...

Personally, I consulted an attorney because H tried to tell me I had no rights to our home. I also found out that he had actually retained a lawyer months earlier... Many surprises along the way!


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17