Well done. Now detach, stay dark, and GAL like you NEVER have before! You have done well, take it up another notch and really build your new life without looking over your shoulders. You know this, just rooting you on. If you can accept that her journey might go well past your D being finalized and maybe much longer then you are prepared. Keep standing tall.
Thanks Zues! I am really ready to move on. I am not even thinking reconciling. I am going to be the best Dad to my kids and do something for me when they are visiting her. I think I finally reached this point by just completely LETTING HER GO. I quit sitting around getting mad and asking why it has to be this way. It is what it is! This situation does not define me. I have acknowledged my fault in our marriage and said I was sorry and asked for forgiveness. I will learn from it and move on. I'm on my way to BETTER DAYS!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
