Confused 5

[Joe46]

Well all hell broke loose tonight!! D21 was texting me today some. She asked me if WW got a new truck. I told her yes. She asked what happened to the other car she had. D21 sold the other car to WW. Finances were tight and we were not able to make alot of payments for it. Last I knew the plan was to give it back to D21 when she got a new vehicle. WW sold it and kept the money. D21 is pissed. She is also not happy WW is moving. She asked me if we are getting a divorce. I said I don't know. D21 said that her grandma said her mom filed papers. I asked WW about it and she claims she has not. WW broke out in tears and was freaking out everyone was in her business.

So I calmed her down and told her that if she filed papers, that it was okay. I got a lawyer and I filed for legal separation. I told her that I was not angry, out to get her or resentful. I don't want to be in a relationship with some one I can't trust and is in the sex industry. I also said that I want to share my life with someone and I want a partner. I told her she is free to do her job and live her life, but I am moving on. We can discuss the kids and I will be sure she gets to see them.

I think she was a little caught off guard how calm I was. I felt good to get that off my chest. I also felt good to tell her that without expecting something to change. I was not doing anything except standing for myself and my kids.