So surreal - I just dropped off the kids at her house, and at same time the other guys spouse is picking up her child. What alternate universe have I landed in?! Any advice for dealing with the OM spending time with my kids? He is completely not worthy of knowing them. And I can't even wrap my mind around what this will do to my kids long term - another selfish choice by my wife and this guy.
Wow. I feel for you. I'm sure I may be in this spot in the future, but I just can't imagine it.
Honestly, there's nothing I can really say, but really follow the links in cadet's intro post. Really use this time to focus on you. If you make yourself stronger, more self-assured and the person you want to be, you can't lose even if your W doesn't see it.
