Update: Had a nice dinner last night with the fam and the WW. I thanked her for dinner and kept the conversation limited and between myself and the children. After dinner I returned to my room and continued to read a new book "A Manual for Living". Later I took a shower and as I was getting ready for bed she gave me a hug...I think she was going to kiss me so I pulled away and said good night.
Today I got up early and made myself breakfast so she couldn't and my son and I spent the majority of the day at his sporting event. I turned my notifications off when she calls or texts (this helps me not respond). As we were heading home I noticed she texted me a few times.
She text me that she has an event this afternoon (supplement product sales) and afterwards were sticking around for a girls night. In the past I would have asked 20 questions but simply replied - Ok.
She texted me a few more times about random stuff and I replied - OK, have fun tonight.
To be honest it takes the stress of her being here off my mind. Today was a good day and while I love her and want to keep our fam together I don't need her to be happy.
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15