Gosh dang it. Neither s13 nor d17 are coming over today.

Hmmm, since W introduced her OM to s13 at his Thursday night baseball game, s13 was sick from school yesterday. He was too sick last night to come over to my place.

And today, W said s13 is too tired to get out of bed, and just wants to lay there.

It sounds like depression to me. I don't understand why s13 doesn't want to just get away from it all, and come over to my place, a nice, quiet, safe place where little is asked of him and he has my full time, love and attention. Oh, and there is a basketball court and the pool opens up this weekend.

Is this all inevitable, with OP being inflicted on our children and the kids having a difficult time dealing with it? I just want W to see what she is doing to our kids with her decisions, but I know, this too is out of my control.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace