Good morning all. I came across this video and it seem to really help me.
quick update... it's been two years since BD.. we txted about once a month or every other month.. sometimes its just quick. sometimes we txt all day.. but it never seems to last longer than that... I haven't heard from her since the end of Jan 2015.. which is ok.. I have dropped the rope and moved on for my own health. I started dating about 6months ago.. it's very different but it was time. The future will be what it's going to be. I am VERY grateful all of this has happened. It has allowed me to grow and mature in so many ways. Taught me so many lessons I other wise wouldn't have been able to learn. At the end of it all I truly wish I could still kept her in my life, but it's ok that she's not. I am fine.. I am better than fine.. I am doing great . I wish you all the best in your journey.
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
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