Originally Posted By: roiste
Great set of rules. They seem mostly to apply to LBS doing LRT. My situation is not yet there but potentially could get there.in such a case is the advice to follow all the rules anyway or can some be ignored to start with.



I disagree. I think a lot of them apply to any relationship in which one partner is heading out the door & the other wants the R to continue.

Pull back, get a grip and really dig deep within Yourself to see what, if anything needs changing IN YOU -

and follow most/all the rules til you have done YOUR work.

THEN you can reassess and decide if & when the LRT would need application but since it is THE LAST resort, by definition,

you'd do a whole lot of other approaches (see "rules") FIRST.

Make sense?


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