Make Love in the Middle of a Warzone

[Pyrite]

Gosh, this anger and bitterness is really coming out of me.

So sorry for this spew! :-)

Spew away, Py doesn't mind.

what - that was it - that was just a hiccup - spew away Smothy.

I absolutely agree with what Zeus was saying, but keep in mind that you are not going to move from one to the other overnight or even once and for all. If you start from "I dont want to be bitter" then this is excellent. Just try to not lose that.

Keep in mind having the compassion that Zeus described and be happy with this generally growing, NOT always growing, but per month say.

Respect the process, grieving that is. This IS bigger than you or I. It has taken over everyone on this board and millions more. It is part of being human that we experience this. It is hard not to, and as you know - do as I say NOT as i do, but DONT constantly evaluate your progress. I have quoted before that happiness is not a destination, it is in the journey. Well maybe so is sadness, and everything that makes up grief.

This journey will last how long???? The point is it won't last forever. There will be another journey, and where that leads you depends largely on how much you learn on this journey - not necessarily where you get to.