I am aghast the police wasted their time with this incident. Maybe if you had yelled a 4-letter word...they could have inferred some sort of indecency but, oh my goodness!
"Homewrecker"
Screamed at Walmart?
Wowwwwww.
Verbally, that lands on the same verbal assault scale as calling someone "meanie" at a maximum security prison. It is just laughable.
But, it does make me wonder what she said in order to get the police report filed...which is why you need to see the police report.
Will it anger you?
Yup.
But, information is power and you, Mighty, keep giving away your power at the wrong time.
You need to know if she insinuated you were violent or irrational in the police report.
I have a feeling she may have done this.
Why?
Because your ex made the comment that you need to "leave them alone" which is baffling because you have left them alone.
In fact, you ignore him on a regular basis.
Which makes me ask an obvious question: How much more alone could you leave them?
Answer: You can't leave them any more alone than you have.
Well then...if this is the answer...we need to ask another question:
What is your ex losing because of your silence? And, how does your ex benefit if he can paint a picture of an irrational and/or violent ex-wife?
When I ask, "What is your ex losing because of your silence" ask yourself this:
Do I have something he wants...but he can't access because I am silent?
I think you might know the answer to this.
Some ex's estranged from their children will use any weapon available to regain the relationship. Even if it means destroying their ex-spouse by alleging they are irrational and/or violent.
I strongly advise you to get the police report and do not take your husband's rantings lightly. I'm beginning to think he is not in as much despair as you might think.
