Mighty, I just want to say a few things, if I may. First of all, Im sorry you were upset and that she called the cops. Ridiculous that she did.
When I was going through all of this and would angry about the ow, I finally realized something. Everytime I said something or did something, I was playing right into their hands. It became them against the world.
She didnt care if I was angry or upset. Neither did my xh. So what was the point of that?
They have to stick up for the other person. If they dont and they agree about what kind of person they are, what does that say about them?
So, I decided that I was not going to allow them to make me be someone I wasnt. I wasnt going to allow them to change me and who I had become. Nope. No freakin way were either of them getting any part of me.
Mighty, she doesnt care what you say. Thats the truth of it. I think you are thinking deep inside that you can find the words to either of them that is going to make them think about what they are doing and it's not going to happen.
When you act like that, you are just confirming what they think you are like.
He will not admit to you anything about her. You are just spinning your wheels.
The ow is grasping at straws. This relationship will one day come crashing down because it is built on lies, deceit and the breaking up of a family.
Dont stoop to their level, Mighty. Dont try to get them to hear anything. Be the Mighty you want to be in spite of their actions. Show your daughter how to get through the tough parts of life with dignity and strength. Leave them to their ridiculousness.
