I've thought about this a lot. You wonder if her change of heart was precipitated by OM jilting her. Of course it is. The ONLY way we EVER stood a chance is for the affair to end. That could only happen if he jilts her or she has an epiphany and ends it. Looks like he ended it in this instance.
And because of that, she is wounded, afraid, and full of chaos. She most definitely is reaching out to me because of familiararity, and perhaps some remnants of love. Who knows? But she is also making strides to break away from OM, as evidenced by her canceling weekend plans to spend with him and his family.
Is this something permanent? Who knows? But it appears to be a start.
I need to back off and be somewhat unavailable now. I don't want to slam the door in her face, but I don't want to allow her to waltz in and avoid the repercussions for all the pain that she has caused.
Last edited by Kramer; 05/22/1509:37 PM.
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