Kramer, I just worry if it hadn't been for the jilting from OM...IDK, this seems like a reactionary thing.
I truly, truly hope for the best, and that your W doesn't want to go to dinner bc your emotional comfort and even keel is salve for her own self inflicted instability and emotional wounds right now.
You've heard people talk about pull back in these situations. Human nature, we want what we think we want until we have it, and then react against it. Be careful, please. Your W may be like a bungee cord jumper, it'll take a bit before her own internal yoyo settles perhaps?
You've done well to this point, I'm sure you've got this. Rooting for you.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
