Yeah you are right NDY. I "think" she has cut ties with him but obviously I don't know for sure. I've accepted I can't control that aspect of it so I just try to be optimistic about it.
How was your W contacting OM outside of her phone/email? I'm no dummy in new emails and stuff like that, just curious on how you found out?
Also - pretty sure you can skype or FB messenger call and such that only uses data but doesn't count as "phone calls"