Yeah you are right NDY. I "think" she has cut ties with him but obviously I don't know for sure. I've accepted I can't control that aspect of it so I just try to be optimistic about it.
Hello Kembo,
Like Cadet writes, I'm sorry that you have to be here but you have come to the right place. I just went thru your entire thread and your situation (except for the A) sounds so similar to mine--even the timeframe. I had a feeling something wasn't right between me and my WAW in August, be she said all was well. In October, while I was out of town visiting my son, she left and filed for D the next day. I have 5 threads now on this forum. Fast forward, she is still living with her Mom/Stepdad 3 1/2 hrs away. She has MS, low self-esteem, and I got over-protective but didn't realize it until she left and eventually told me. She said I was "smothering" her and she wants her "life back." I see where I came across as that and have owned up to it.
I was happy to see that you are trying to be optimistic about this. That was going to be my suggestion.
I am on this forum a lot but I am heading out of town for the weekend to go to a life-long friend's summer home 2 hrs away, my GAL for this weekend.
Please take things one day at a time. Easier said than done, I know. But you sound like a fantastic guy with a good head on his shoulders.
You can DB...I am sure of it!
Take care my new friend.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
