It's hard to accentuate the positive, when you feel you have been kicked in the teeth!
My H had an EA/OW simmering in the background for nearly 4 years. Who's was the bigger fool. I found a new place, was moving out etc until he begged me to stay, now I feel the bigger fool, as the Ow is the same one he had an EA with.
I don't want to be so bitter! :-(
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15