oh yeah - just read about Huddy's Monday - reminded me - my mate is flying me to his place for the week (June). Sub-tropical, beachside, beautiful midweek quiet . i can't wait. NO f****n W either.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
nah - everything has been mediated so far. W has had me on the backfoot because I have been afraid of losing my 50% custody. But from my talk with legal aid I get the impression she'd be pushing it uphill to get that ruled on by a judge. So that benighted case - dare I challenge her that WE are not re-locating.
Last edited by Pyrite; 05/22/1502:49 PM.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
i am still amazed by how people can behave this way. treat anyone like this, let alone the person that they at least once loved.
I had a thought about this. Pre BD my wife would never have treated anyone so badly, not even her worst enemy. But me? Man oh man did she get the knifes out. I often wonder if the level of cruelty is in direct proportion to the level of hurt the WAS is feeling?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
makes total sense man. There have been numerous times that I feel like I can sense how much she is hurting/conflicted/guilty inside. Unfortunately - she still did it.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
makes total sense man. There have been numerous times that I feel like I can sense how much she is hurting/conflicted/guilty inside. Unfortunately - she still did it.
^^ and that's the crux of the matter.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
It's hard to accentuate the positive, when you feel you have been kicked in the teeth!
My H had an EA/OW simmering in the background for nearly 4 years. Who's was the bigger fool. I found a new place, was moving out etc until he begged me to stay, now I feel the bigger fool, as the Ow is the same one he had an EA with.
I don't want to be so bitter! :-(
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
. i can't wait. NO f****n W either.