May I ask, what makes you think that your W has cut contact with the OM? Reason I'm asking is when my W BD'ed I basically said the same to her i.e. cut contact and stop all this or I'm off. At that time she even offered me her phone to check that she had deleted his number and his txt's. Guess what, she was lying.
Remember believe nothing of what they say and 50% of what they do.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
