That's all very odd. So, in both cases, W has seemed to be planning this for a long time. Apart from turning my stomach, where does this put them on the WW scale?
We could do with Sandi2 here, because I thought a WW/WAW kind of decided just before BD. Having said that, we can't trust them, can we?
I don't think it's quite that sudden. I think they have the OM in the background simmering away nicely while they decide what to do about the M. They are conflicted for a long time before they build up the courage to BD. Once they do though the decent is rapid. Very very rapid.
Note, the behavior up to BD gets increasingly erratic as well. Mostly to the H but also in general.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
