Originally Posted By: Pyrite

I remember it like a horror movie. During the highlights I was panting, couldn't catch my breath. There are a handful of moments in my life that remain distinct. Most have dimmed. There was one moment which I dont think will EVER dim. She made me repeat it, to be sure I understood what she was saying. This was horrible in itself. "W didn't want a 2nd baby with me. She just wanted a sibling for the 1st." I still can't process this. It makes me feel horrible. I feel sick for my little girl as well. I just can't excuse adding this to her script.


This, this is very odd. My W and I for years had said we didn't want another kid. Mostly it was her saying it. But on the night of BD we were at a party. S9 was there (it was a Halloween party do child friendly) and S9 had said that he would like a brother/sister but that won't happen now. WW turns around and says to him 'Never say never'.

That night at home once S9 was asleep she BD'ed. I never really thought about that until now.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.