Hi Lou- you are doing so well right now. I can imagine how a conversation like that can have you rattled. The one thing that was a real red flag to me was H asking you to contact him. You have not blocked all avenues of communication. If his desire is genuine then he must contact you. You have to wonder if the MLCer wants you to contact them so they feel needed. I guess what I am saying is that right now H may not understand that any relationship requires more than "hey call me" or "I feel bad when you don't contact me"
This is about you and your life. OW's presence is also an alarm. You can't know what is really going on with H until he is alone with himself to figure it out.
You are my hero Lou. You look at life in such a positive way and I admire you greatly.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
