So I note I had not much planned, well that didnt work out as expected!
Wednesday afternoon spoke to w who said the oil light was on on the car and I had the oil (we put it in my car before we went on our trip the other week), also she was installing a new game for s on the laptop and had some troubles.
Went round and resolved both and we ended up jointly cooking a chicken curry which was rather nice. Family evening (although s spent most of it playing his new game), spent the night on the sofa and then yesterday we had another long talk.
Besides spending a lot of time together w and i touched upon more issues that had cropped up in the past, how we would deal with them going forward and more. Although w hasnt yet told MIL we did discuss telling s, I appreciate though she can and would see this as a "lock" on her intentions and we agreed we're not going to do that until she's ready. She hasnt changed her mind on anything just working through at her own speed, I'm not pushing but no longer "anti pushing" by asking lots of if she's sure/dont want to push her but... kind of bookending. She has said she's quite happy for my dad to know as he's been asking a lot and i've been politely stonewalling to keep her path smooth. Not sure how much I will say if anything though, keeping my dad aside has been one of my better moves and i'm not keen on instigating him asking whats happening every few days!
The three of us spent much of the day together and during some food shopping (after s bought a game) w took my hand walking around the shops and told me we could all stay over at the house tonight.
We stopped by the flat and fed WFT and picked up some bits for s and w and then headed back. S played his "other" new game and w and i had a glas of wine in the back yard before we made a ratatouille together. After dinner we all watched a movie.
W isnt yet ready to share a bed so I took my sofa and she took the bed, shes afraid thats a step she cant move back from once she goes there so she wants to be ready although Im clear my expectations are not physical at this stage, I am more than happy she chose to stay so slept downstairs. S of course had his room.
About 7 s came down (wanted to play his game) found me and snuggled under the covers and went back to sleep. Got up as normal before 8 and left him to play his game while I used the main bathroom and then got things going for the day, fed s etc. W is very under the weather so is taking a rest this morning before I take them back (the current plan).
S will be staying tonight and maths in the morning.
Other than that Im becoming wary of knowing whats happening next, not expecting good or bad just keeping on
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
