While it may be different for you, I believe that an emotional affair, a physical affair, and an imaginary affair (as you may be describing) are all the same trigger to the WW. It makes them BELIEVE that there is something better out there. Of course there's some difference in how hard it is on the LBS, but I don't know that it changes the way the WW feels about the LBS.
I agree with this. One other thing that I have to bring up was sandi's description on the WW crossing the line. How in the beginning they need to build up their confidence, constantly telling themselves what they are doing is wrong but once the line is crossed it gets easier and easier to escalate the situation until they are in full blown WW mode which is very hard to come back from. A lot never do.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.