Tonight I decided it's still early enough in all this that I can make some "intentional mistakes". Our discussion went ok. I learned that OM's wife now knows about the affair. I couldn't be happier. This adds another level to all this and puts another roadblock in their way. Now he will have to deal with that.
It could also lead to them both leaving and starting a new life together. If it happens, so be it. But they've only known each other 3 months so doing so would be pretty stupid.
Also, let W know that our D2 is NOT to have contact with OM. She said she feels bad that she did that. Hopefully she's sincere in feeling remorse.
I let the conversation drag on a little too long and we ended up getting huffy with each other, so I pulled back and got ready for bed.
Time to reset using the new info and let her be scared she might end up losing BOTH men.
Last edited by ralphy; 05/22/1505:00 AM. Reason: typo
