Raine , my husband also said those words. Matter of fact it came out as " When you find out who I really am, I don't want you to hate me. ". This is about their own guilt and lack of self esteem, their inner insecurity of us seeing who they perceive they really are.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay