H sent me a text after sitting on the subject for two days:
"I think the best thing to do is for you (or your lawyers) to send me by email a comprehensive summary of the proposed, true house value, min sell price, and each itemized repair to make the house suitable for sale. It would be helpful to have some real estate, no cost, comparable summary to support your proposed min. Sell price & quotes or estimates for the necessary repairs and landscaping. Thanks".
I did not send him any text yesterday. Today I got this message and did not answer. Instead, I called my lawyer and told him to set up an appointment with the appraiser that was set up by the court upon my request. This way we will have the right price, fair for both of us and no more back and forth with cheap talk.
I think I did right. The kids told me that he went to pick them up from school yesterday and he was very upset, kind of mad.
All what I know is that I need to get this done asap and have my own life back. I am so tired of living by all this court rules.
Hope is getting very slim. Once you are into this D process it feel that things are done for good. We will see what happens, but I feel like there is no more return from here.
