Went as well as I thought it could. The boys understood and had no questions, very resilient. Afterwards ww and I talked about selling the house and she brought up she needs to leave tomorrow night because it hurts her to much to see me go after 14 years. Said she had a breakdown Monday. I just spent time validating and listening to her.
I actually feel really good. Excited to move out and now that the boys know, not worried or have any more scary conversations to have.
I really think she's going to continue to push through the divorce and will continue the affair. No talk of reconciliation or wanting anything to change. Right now I'm ok and good with that. I actually feel like I'm dropping the rope and it feels amazing!
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23