While I'd previously removed from my walls and shelves the major reminders of our M (photos, wedding gifts, etc), I realized today there were many small items just hanging out. Toothbrush, shower supplies, nicknacks, etc. things she specifically has chosen not to pack up previously for whatever reason. I've started the purge.
Once she is out tomorrow I plan to spend part of my weekend packing up anything left that represents "us" and take it either to storage or my folks. I'm not ready to take it to a dumpster, but I do think having it all out of my home can do nothing but help propel me forward on my path to detachment.
I feel tomorrow will be bittersweet.
On a positive note, first IC session scheduled for next week. Nervous about it as its a new concept to me, but also excited for the potential for growth that it can hopefully provide.
Me:36 W:30 M:2.75 T:7 BD: 4/2015 ILYBNILWY: 5/2015 W Moved Out: 5/2015 W filed for D: 7/2015