W texts me this morning to ask if I am going to s13's baseball game tonight. I text back that I have a busy day, and we will see if I am up to it tonight.

W then bombs me that her Affair Partner will be there, and wants to make sure that I knew beforehand.

I text back "I thought we were keeping other people away from our children."

W texts back AP and I have been dating for 6 months. He will be hanging around more.

I am mad. I knew nothing about who W dates, and her throwing this in my face is bad enough. But the real problem is her forcing her AP into my s13's face, when I know he is not ready.

I will not be around W's AP, so I am not going to s13's baseball game tonight. I am thinking of telling W that I will not be at any of s13's baseball games as long as AP is there. And that I will explain the reason why to s13.

Any suggestions?


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace