Kramer ... yeah ... I get it and I am not saying I would not have 'fallen' either if my W ever did the same.
And yeah with amount of offspring you have produced ya might wanna double bag it up .... just sayin
So now ... look big picture ... and focus on DBing ... all of it .. not just one part here and there when it suits you. You can do this .. you need to in order to flip the table.