Thanks for replying. I agree that it was not a good idea. I did it for me and it did feel good. I realize that there is a good chance that things are truly over between us. I know that she was temp checking and do not for a minute think that our little tryst was anything other than sex. I also agree that I do not want to perpetuate the infidelity game. This was my opportunity to take back some of the control that she took when she left me. I am not going to become a groveling doormat just because we had sex. I did it for me so that I felt good.
Now back to DB and non pursuit. She knows where to find me if she is interested.
Me M51 WW F46 T 17 yrs M 16 yrs 9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17 8 grandchildren ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14 I discover PA 12/31/14 She files D: 1/9/15 She moves out 3/2/15 D papers served 3/18/15