Kramer-
IMHO, I think that your W is cake eating. For some women, cake eating could be spending time together, going to events together, or having sex with LBH. Believe it or not, but women can have sex without having feelings for someone according to some WAW on here. From what i have read about WAW and their stories, WAW sexual drive increases when they have an A. The physical need is what she is after.

as for what to do next.....dont put too much into what happened. W could be using you or setting you up. These are just my thoughts and im sure others will disagree. IMO, there is nothing you can do, but just act as if it didnt happen. Next time W ask anything of this sort, just say "No thanks."

Nick


Me-35 W-34
Married 6/2011 T-6 years
S-2
BD-3/22/2015