I wish I'd never met her. I'm so sorry my kids have got her flakey genes and will learn it's OK to abandon your marriage without a second thought. Damn I hate her.
Hate to say this but if you never met her you would not have those kids, and hating her means you hate half your kids. I am sure that is not true.
She is sick, don't hate her for being sick.
My .02
P.S. - I got my book will try to start reading it.