I think I belong in Piecing...

[Painter]

If my approach fails miserably, you are free to say "I told you so".

I keep coming back to what you wrote about it taking 5 minutes or no more than 24 hours to decide if you want to give you marriage it all. I think it took longer than that for me, on my end, after I found out about the A.

I think H decided to work on the M when I returned home, but it's been a step-by-step process for him to understand what it entails. And it's a process for me, too.