Yeah, I am HOPING the A is over; I know contact has been very minimal but I do think that "mourning" process is going to take some time.
I have definitely taken my hits, I don't know if I need a spew jacket or a bullet proof vest.
I have read the WW threads. They were invaluable to me. This might be a vague question by how long at they wayward after affair is over? are things still pretty much the same until the piecing starts?
I have no idea. My WW is still very active I her A and no signs of stopping. And here comes the hard part. Right now the A is a far more attractive proposition than her M. To her, he is her knight in shining armour. You are the enemy. Harsh but true. Now. If you want your W back, really want her back your objective is to make you a far more attractive proposition than him. Get my drift?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.