Hi she is not feeling "it" anymore

[Mrrch]

She had to go to emergency this morning,S5 was home sick from school.
She asked if i could ask my brother to watch him but he was busy.
She says she'll have to take him with her. Ok
Then she asks if i could come home to watch him, i said bring him to my work.
Drops him off and i say to keep me posted, if you are quick come pick up S.
A barrage of texts follow.
Said I'm uncaring of how she is feeling,making her jump through hoops, feels she is inconveniecing me.
I validated her about how she feels physically.
i said i still do care very much for my wife and that i am still here for her.
She does not handle physical pain well so maybe she is lashing out at an easy target.