Hey DifRent -Welcome and i am sorry you are here, but the people you meet will give so much support as youve seen already.
In regards to you sitch, your W is a WAW and you should try to read up on LBHS and WAWs. You know you only have control of yourself. WAW are a completely different person and they are going to say and do things to make them feel better. They will do and say things out of the ordinary from my experience with my WAW. I also realized that i played a huge part in my WAW getting to this point. Its hard, but really try to accept what is going on and look at yourself. Focus on making changes for yourself and please know that things will get worse before they get better. Continue to detach and GAL! Best of luck to you in your sitch. Nick
Me-35 W-34 Married 6/2011 T-6 years S-2 BD-3/22/2015
