Thanks HeavyD. Yep... it's over. And probably, it should be, now that I look back at how we failed to communicate properly and do the things we should have done to make our relationship airtight. I'm okay with that. I still wear my ring though... she does not. I'm committed to her, but I need to be committed the right way. I need to keep coming back here so folks can keep me straight.

Today I've been working on the back porch, hardly any contact. I think this unnerves her, but it's what she asked for.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19