Thanks HeavyD. Yep... it's over. And probably, it should be, now that I look back at how we failed to communicate properly and do the things we should have done to make our relationship airtight. I'm okay with that. I still wear my ring though... she does not. I'm committed to her, but I need to be committed the right way. I need to keep coming back here so folks can keep me straight.
Today I've been working on the back porch, hardly any contact. I think this unnerves her, but it's what she asked for.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19