Yeah, I am HOPING the A is over; I know contact has been very minimal but I do think that "mourning" process is going to take some time.

I have definitely taken my hits, I don't know if I need a spew jacket or a bullet proof vest.

I have read the WW threads. They were invaluable to me. This might be a vague question by how long at they wayward after affair is over? are things still pretty much the same until the piecing starts?

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15