You marriage is over at bomb drop. Accept it. At least in the WW's mind - it is over and there is nothing you can do to change it.
However, feelings are fluid and change all of the time. Just because your WW says something it is not gospel. Right?
Just carry on, GAL, keep a PMA and read Sandi's rules ASAP.
I am sorry this is a dark and sad time for you. I get it and I think everyone on this board understands that too. It is awful and a situation that you did not ask to be part of. And it's a situation that affects not only you but your kids.Hang in there. A lot will change in the next few months you can be sure of that. Fasten your seatbelt.