Thanks NDY, I don't know who said it but the best thing I have heard so far is that she will act like an addict/3 year old. My initial instinct was to explain she wasn't looking at the whole picture and to tell her she is putting all the blame on me when she has a part in this BUT, I know that is pointless right now. She is definitely running wild with her emotions.
I have noticed by my validating she is more willing to talk and open up a little more. Granted most of the time she is just criticizing me for stuff I did or didn't do, but I can take the heat.
It is so true. The A is addictive and you are standing in the way of her happiness. At least that's the way they see it.
I'm glad you can take the heat. As cadet says get yourself a spew jacket coz your going to need one. Have you read sandi2's threads on the WW yet? They are required reading for people in our situation.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
