That sounds like a positive situation with your H in MC.
Whats going on with your Mom and Brothers?
Mahhhty ,
Yes the counselling was very good. My family does not want me to get back together with my husband. They are negative and critical about everything I do. I don't do enough for my children, I do too much for my children. My mother has told me time and time again that I'm a terrible mother. They think I put my husband before my kids. They are miserable and want me to be miserable just like them. It's been a power struggle all my life. It also negatively affected my relationship with my H. He was always considered an outsider, not good enough for them. I know that really bothered him. My body finally said enough too. Stress aggravates my disease and I have a lot of stress from everywhere. I can't please everyone all the time. Now I need to think of myself. My H makes me happy. He is my family! Yes I love my children too, but they are adults and need to take care of themselves. For now I walk a tightrope and keep things to myself. I have a few months to get this house ready and then sell it. I know when I finally tell my family that I want to move away with my H and start a fresh life, all he'll is going to break loose. I know I will loose all contact with my mother and brothers for a while, but that is what I will have to do for me.
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
