Rip,
It looks like you are handling the upcoming transition well. Continue to be confident in the face of uncertainty.

Now is the time to really be a rock for your sons. Be at peace that you are doing everything possible to potentially save your MR and take care of yourself for their sake and your own.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15