Don't think it is easy for me some times I really want to say what are you thinking, are you ever coming home, but I shut the trap because I know his answer right now will be I Don't know. 25years said never talk about the R let them raise the topic and then only talk about it if you want to. I can see and hear that he isn't ready to talk about R and from what I understand it will be very clear when they are. 25years also said not to assess anything for 60 - 90 days to see if there is a change which I took to mean no R talk.
So when R talk wants to poke its ugly head up I picture the STOP sign. LOL.
