Question... last night she said as we came home from our networking event that it was probably best that she move out of the bedroom. I agreed. She left later to see the OW, but came back at some point. While she was gone, I put her pjs and toothbrush in the guest bedroom, locked the door to ours, and went to sleep. I must have been sleeping hard, because I never heard her unlock the door and get into bed beside me, where I found her when I woke up. In the morning, she asked if I had wanted her to sleep in the other room. I said, yes, that's what we agreed. But she said, I don't want to, not till the boys move out. (Younger son graduates high school in a few weeks, and he and his brother are moving into an apartment we bought them not long after.) I don't know if she's stalling for some reason, doesn't really want to move out, or what... because the kids aren't stupid. It's clear something is wrong between us. Should I insist she move out? Or is there something to be gained from allowing her to sleep in our bed?
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
